Black dot on a piece of white paper

Past few days I was totally busy, alot alot alot of otis(obs) need to be solve. Most are easy job, but need upload from one server to another server before going LIVE. I don't really understand why, but I guess its most probably because of backup issue. But even I simple simpl task, u need to have time to upload, to ask approval, to ask them to roll, the most sad part is the tester need to test 3 times for a site because of the rolling to differ server.

Today I abit relax, finally all obs have been cleared. Horray... Today there are 2 new collegues. 1 sit beside me, and another sit opposite me. Horray... I got neighbour liao, won't be too boring I guess.

I have this thought today, human like gossiping, yes its true. LAST time I use to join in n talk in the topic, but now don't feel like gossiping anymore. It seems like talking peoples bad thing as a joke or entertainment. I know that person who gossip this might don't know what she/he say might have this impact on this new person. It makes that new person's 1st impression have gone. Just because of his/her 1 comment on the new person. In a company, I seldom see people praising on someone but rather comment more in their bad stuff, ITs like once you done something wrong, they will remember the bad things forever, how many good things you have done doesn't seems to cover them off. So SAD. ITs like a white paper, there is a black dot on it, most people will look at the black dot but they didn't relaese that in that paper, the black dot may be is just 1% of the paper, the other white site is 99%. Should look at peoples good thing which is 99% not the black dot 1%.

Yeah Penang.... here I come

Yeah... tonite will be going back to Penang. Missed penang FOOD... so yummy, need to eat CHA KOAY TIAW, LAKSA, HOKKIEN MEE.... wahahahhahah

Not forgeting our trip to there, not just go eat only, this is our 1st business trip to PENANG. My bf finally wanna open market at PENANG... Hurray, I can introduce my business to my lovely frineds in Penang, to share the joy and benefit to them. I call up alot of friends to meet up yesterday, there are all so supporting:) Cool. I MUST make this trip a sucessfull I as I want TS to visit my hometown always. Wanna let him know that PENANG is the best....

Besides that, Lizzy is back from states, already 5 years haven't saw her. Miss her alot. She is my good friend in secondary school, she came back because her mum is ill. Now jobless and become full time driver for her sisters and brother. I just life here in Penang is bore to her. As she is not working. She still not quite use to the weather and the enviroment in Penang. Some more say hate Penang, so "kek sim" after heard her comment. PENANG is the place I grown up in. So I would always LOVE it wheather where i am in the world.

开心他来载我

好开心，有了车，TS可以来到公司来载我。
早上他气我的一切都忘了。

牙痛

我的牙痛，感觉好像牙龈在痛，牙龈在痛，好像人发热了。
我拼命吃维他命C,当着糖果来吃，有点酸酸，但麻木了。
种比吃糖果好，比较健康。 :P

戀愛~四個階段

有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情

必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。

第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。

第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，
至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，
這時另一方就會感到被冷落。

第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。

第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，
你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳）最親的人。　
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽，而會互相成長。

但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，
而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，
不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
　
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，
真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣


我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，
一旦愛上了，年深日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，
他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，
原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。

妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，
但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人，
這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，
這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳差點認不出自己。

我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，
妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型，
然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，
妳不必再到處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。

深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，
為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，
妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純，所以要很單純的人才容易獲得......

礼物 vs 食物

今天在星洲日報>城人小說 看了一篇小說，关于一个人为何不喜欢礼物。忽然，感觉到TS也是不是很喜欢礼物的人。每次有重要日字，我会买卡或小小的礼物给他， 但他只是会看看几眼，就丢在一旁，不去理会。我很喜欢自己手做卡或小礼物，他的收房间时还差一点丢我送的卡。。。太令我伤心了。

反而，我请他吃，他会很开心，我不知他会记得吗， 但他不会丢任何吃不完的东西。

他的爱的语圆是食物以服务。该次不要再送他礼物啦! 浪费钱和时间。

Nice movie ~ 千手观音

Check it out, its call the 千手观音。A Chinese preformance. Very nice. It might take a while to download the show:)

http://www.employees.org/~hshen/12371032.wmv

Fruits b4 meal

People always ask me, why you have fruits b4 lunch or dinner, here's the answer:

Fruits should be taken in an empty stomach, not as dessert after the meal as is
often done.

If you eat fruit like that, it will also serve a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.

Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit.

As fruit digests faster than bread, the slice of fruit digests quickly and is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but its passage is blocked by the bread which takes longer to digest.

In the meantime the whole meal ferments and turns to acid.
Consequently, when the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and
digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.

So it is better to eat your fruits in an empty stomach or before your meals !

You have heard people complaining

every time I eat water-melon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat banana I feel like running to the toilet etc.... Actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit in an empty stomach.

The fruit mixes with the putrefying other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat ! Graying hair, balding, nervous outburst, dark circles under the eyes all these will not happen if you take fruits in an empty stomach.

It is incorrectly presumed that some fruits like orange and lemon are acidic and will enhance acidity in the stomach. Research however shows that all fruits become alkaline in our body.

When you need to drink fruit juice, drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT from the cans.

Don't drink juice that has been heated up. Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all. You only get to taste.

So stop making 'durian porridge' if you want nutrients. Cooking fruit destroys all the vitamins.

Eating the pulp or whole fruit is far better than drinking the juice as the fibre is good for you.

If you should drink the juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.

幸福

I like people fetch me, rather then me drive :)

Cosmetic Vanity Case

I got my Cosmetic Vanity Case yesterday. It is beautiful. It is a stylish carrying case for professional make-up artists or home use.
It contains multiple, stackable and foldable compartments.

It's dimensions: 21(H) x 20(W) x 30(L) cm. I have found a vanity case that is very similiar to mine. Except the color is differ. Mine is in dark red color. I got the pictures from Yazmo. There got alot of makeup vanity case!!


Here is the outer look of the casing.

The inner look it quite similiar to this.

Woah.... I look more professional in with that box. Hope to get higher sales back with this case.