好开心，有了车，TS可以来到公司来载我。
早上他气我的一切都忘了。
Friday, June 24, 2005
Thursday, June 23, 2005
戀愛~四個階段
有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情
必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。
第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。
第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，
至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，
這時另一方就會感到被冷落。
第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。
第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，
你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳）最親的人。
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽，而會互相成長。
但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，
而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，
不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，
真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣
我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，
一旦愛上了，年深日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，
他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，
原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。
妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，
但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人，
這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，
這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳差點認不出自己。
我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，
妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型，
然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，
妳不必再到處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。
深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，
為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，
妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純，所以要很單純的人才容易獲得......
必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。
第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。
第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，
至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，
這時另一方就會感到被冷落。
第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。
第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，
你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳）最親的人。
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽，而會互相成長。
但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，
而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，
不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，
真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣
我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，
一旦愛上了，年深日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，
他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，
原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。
妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，
但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人，
這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，
這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳差點認不出自己。
我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，
妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型，
然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，
妳不必再到處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。
深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，
為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，
妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純，所以要很單純的人才容易獲得......
Wednesday, June 22, 2005
Nice movie ~ 千手观音
Check it out, its call the 千手观音。A Chinese preformance. Very nice. It might take a while to download the show:)
http://www.employees.org/~hshen/12371032.wmv
http://www.employees.org/~hshen/12371032.wmv
Fruits b4 meal
People always ask me, why you have fruits b4 lunch or dinner, here's the answer:
Fruits should be taken in an empty stomach, not as dessert after the meal as is
often done.
If you eat fruit like that, it will also serve a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.
Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit.
As fruit digests faster than bread, the slice of fruit digests quickly and is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but its passage is blocked by the bread which takes longer to digest.
In the meantime the whole meal ferments and turns to acid.
Consequently, when the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and
digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.
So it is better to eat your fruits in an empty stomach or before your meals !
You have heard people complaining
every time I eat water-melon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat banana I feel like running to the toilet etc.... Actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit in an empty stomach.
The fruit mixes with the putrefying other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat ! Graying hair, balding, nervous outburst, dark circles under the eyes all these will not happen if you take fruits in an empty stomach.
It is incorrectly presumed that some fruits like orange and lemon are acidic and will enhance acidity in the stomach. Research however shows that all fruits become alkaline in our body.
When you need to drink fruit juice, drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT from the cans.
Don't drink juice that has been heated up. Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all. You only get to taste.
So stop making 'durian porridge' if you want nutrients. Cooking fruit destroys all the vitamins.
Eating the pulp or whole fruit is far better than drinking the juice as the fibre is good for you.
If you should drink the juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.
Cosmetic Vanity Case
I got my Cosmetic Vanity Case yesterday. It is beautiful. It is a stylish carrying case for professional make-up artists or home use.
It contains multiple, stackable and foldable compartments.
It's dimensions: 21(H) x 20(W) x 30(L) cm. I have found a vanity case that is very similiar to mine. Except the color is differ. Mine is in dark red color. I got the pictures from Yazmo. There got alot of makeup vanity case!!
Here is the outer look of the casing.
The inner look it quite similiar to this.
Woah.... I look more professional in with that box. Hope to get higher sales back with this case.
It contains multiple, stackable and foldable compartments.
It's dimensions: 21(H) x 20(W) x 30(L) cm. I have found a vanity case that is very similiar to mine. Except the color is differ. Mine is in dark red color. I got the pictures from Yazmo. There got alot of makeup vanity case!!
Here is the outer look of the casing.
The inner look it quite similiar to this.
Woah.... I look more professional in with that box. Hope to get higher sales back with this case.
Our new CAR ~ Proton Iswara Sedan 1.5
Yesterday we finally get my new car!!
Almost waited a month to wait for the car plus doing the loan thing. Argh.... alot documents need to pass to them. Bank statement, EPF statement.... bla bla bla, soo much procedure.
Because we are buying that car for business purposes, so we didn't select a car that we like. We rather select a car that is ecomonical, big spacer to store products and reasonable price. Its a Red Proton Iswara Sedan 1.5, older model of the proton car model. But its cheaper then the latest 1, Proton Syvi and the new model of Proton Iwara (RObot Car).
Its the same model, but mine car is in solid red color.
I originally wanted a smaller car, like Kancil, Kenari or like Atos type car, but TS insist that its too small to either take people or take products. It won't be our last car, definate won't be, so we decided to go for that car we own now.
We take Hoo for a car ride to test the car. He 1st impression is "I so miss this car,it remains me about my old car that I had b4". Hoo last time had a car same model as our car now. The layout everything is the same.
"You both listen here, set a goal, 3 years later, you better change a new car!", this is Hoo comments. I was thinking, we just brought a new car, but they had alredy plan for the future that 3 years later, we MUST change a car. It's good in a way that we force ourself to achieve something that we want. HAVE the vision of future. That's great.
Almost waited a month to wait for the car plus doing the loan thing. Argh.... alot documents need to pass to them. Bank statement, EPF statement.... bla bla bla, soo much procedure.
Because we are buying that car for business purposes, so we didn't select a car that we like. We rather select a car that is ecomonical, big spacer to store products and reasonable price. Its a Red Proton Iswara Sedan 1.5, older model of the proton car model. But its cheaper then the latest 1, Proton Syvi and the new model of Proton Iwara (RObot Car).
Its the same model, but mine car is in solid red color.
I originally wanted a smaller car, like Kancil, Kenari or like Atos type car, but TS insist that its too small to either take people or take products. It won't be our last car, definate won't be, so we decided to go for that car we own now.
We take Hoo for a car ride to test the car. He 1st impression is "I so miss this car,it remains me about my old car that I had b4". Hoo last time had a car same model as our car now. The layout everything is the same.
"You both listen here, set a goal, 3 years later, you better change a new car!", this is Hoo comments. I was thinking, we just brought a new car, but they had alredy plan for the future that 3 years later, we MUST change a car. It's good in a way that we force ourself to achieve something that we want. HAVE the vision of future. That's great.
Nyonya Dumplings
I ate nyonya dumpling today morning, its tasty with strong aroma!
The 1st time I heard about nyonya dumpling was Hoo n TS talking about melaka food. When they mention about nyonya dumpling, their reaction change, "nyonya dumpling is very nice, very tasty, its blue in color........", I was thinking, why the dumpling is in blue color? for decoration??
Finally my friend gave me the 1st nyonya dumpling, it was in the shape as a rectangular pillow, open it, yeah..... it was is blue n white colors. 1st bite - nothing special, 2nd bit - still ok..... Nothing special wat! But my bad hungry bf ate the other half of my dumpling. So my memory of nyonya dumpling was so so only.
Yesterday my lovely malacca housemate brings some of her home made nyonya dumpling for us. The 1st bite - taste good, 2nd bite - strong aroma taste..... Its taste good, better then the original tradisional dumpling. I love it. Yummy. The main indregiants inside the nyonya dumplings are chopped meat + spicies. It taste abit sweet, abit salty n abit spicy.The normal orginal dumplings are pork meat+mushroom+beans + salty egg york. This dumpling is totally salty.
The other favorite dumpling I love most is the plain yellow small dumpling, its eaten with the brown sugar sauce. Its hard to find it selling at the market this few years, might not have high demand on it. but it is still my favorite.
I manage to find some photos of the nyonya dumplings in kampungkai blogspot. His blog descibe how the nyonya dumpling is being produce.
This is the look of the nyonya dumpling when u remove the bamboo leafs. Its blue and white strips colors!! REALLY blue in color.
This is the inner ingrediants of the dumpling, taste fantastic...
This are normal chinese dumplings. Clockwise from top left: Supreme Dumpling, Chilli Shrimp Dumpling and Plain Dumplings. I love the plain dumplings
The 1st time I heard about nyonya dumpling was Hoo n TS talking about melaka food. When they mention about nyonya dumpling, their reaction change, "nyonya dumpling is very nice, very tasty, its blue in color........", I was thinking, why the dumpling is in blue color? for decoration??
Finally my friend gave me the 1st nyonya dumpling, it was in the shape as a rectangular pillow, open it, yeah..... it was is blue n white colors. 1st bite - nothing special, 2nd bit - still ok..... Nothing special wat! But my bad hungry bf ate the other half of my dumpling. So my memory of nyonya dumpling was so so only.
Yesterday my lovely malacca housemate brings some of her home made nyonya dumpling for us. The 1st bite - taste good, 2nd bite - strong aroma taste..... Its taste good, better then the original tradisional dumpling. I love it. Yummy. The main indregiants inside the nyonya dumplings are chopped meat + spicies. It taste abit sweet, abit salty n abit spicy.The normal orginal dumplings are pork meat+mushroom+beans + salty egg york. This dumpling is totally salty.
The other favorite dumpling I love most is the plain yellow small dumpling, its eaten with the brown sugar sauce. Its hard to find it selling at the market this few years, might not have high demand on it. but it is still my favorite.
I manage to find some photos of the nyonya dumplings in kampungkai blogspot. His blog descibe how the nyonya dumpling is being produce.
This is the look of the nyonya dumpling when u remove the bamboo leafs. Its blue and white strips colors!! REALLY blue in color.
This is the inner ingrediants of the dumpling, taste fantastic...
This are normal chinese dumplings. Clockwise from top left: Supreme Dumpling, Chilli Shrimp Dumpling and Plain Dumplings. I love the plain dumplings
Monday, June 20, 2005
Wednesday, June 15, 2005
the guy who love u..............
TS sent me this forward email today. I think it is best represent his love to me:)
So how many statement does it hits you?
The guy who love you, can't tell you the reason
why he love you. He only knew that, in his eyes,
you are the only one.
The guy who love you, actually always make you
mad, but he do never know what stupid thing did
he done, as everything he done, is for your own
good.
The guy who love you, seldom praise you , but in
his heart, you are the best, only he know it.
The guy who love you, will scold or complaint if
you din't reply his message but others, because
he cares.
The guy who love you, only drop his tears in
front of you, when you try to wipe his tears, you are
touching his heart, the heart which beat for you.
The guy who love you, will remember every word
u said, even its accidentally. And he will use the
word always at the nick of time.
The guy who love you, will not give any promise
that easily, because they don't want to break the
promise, they want you to believe him and they
want to give you the happiest and safest life ever
after.
The guy who love you, always tell you not to think
too much, because they already plan it for you, he
want to give u the best life in the future, he want
to give you a suprise, believe him that he can do it.
The guy who love you, maybe can't remember
speciall occasion like somekind of anniversary,
but, he do know that, every second he live, he's
loving you, no matter what day is today.
The guy who love you, won't said " i love you" that
easily, because everything he done for you is
showing that he love you already, but only he will
tell the word at the special situation, because he
dun wan u to misunderstand, he want u to know
that he love you.
The guy who really love you, will feel that,
sometimes, something have to tell for only once,
because he thought that u might already
understand him, if talk so much, he will feel that
theres nothing you will cherish.
The guy who love you, will go to airport to fetch
you, he won't carry a bunch a rose and call you
darling like what you expect. But he will carry your
ludgage and ask you " why are you becoming that
thin within two days?" with his sincere heart.
The boy who love you, will listen quietly to you,
when you are mad, and when you finished, he will
said, you still got class tomorrow, sleep earlier.
With smile.
The boy who love you, don't know that whether
he should call you when you are angry, but he will
sent a message to you after few hours, if you ask
him why he call that late, he will said, when you
are angry, my explanation are all rubbish. But
when you calm down, my explanation will only
really works.
The boy who love you, always call you little girl,
but everytime he want to make a big decision, he
will first want to hear your advice.
The guy who love you, don't like little toy like teddy
bear, but he will always put the bear you gift him
at his bed.
The guy who love you, while quarelling, he will
apologize uncontrollably, althought you are the one
who's wrong, and later, he will sent a message to
you with "baby, actually you know its your fault,
you know it urself ".
The guy who love you, while really miss you, he
will want to buy a bunch of rose and wait you
stupidly under your apartment. But he never
knows, what he bought is daisy, but doesn't
matter, because in his heart, that's roses.
The guy who love you, seldom said sweet words,
but you know, his kisses already transfer his all
passion to you.
The guy who love you, if he can't always see
you, he will try to make himself busy, for not to
have any time to remember you, because he
knew, if he did, he will keep on missing you until
he could do nothing.
So how many statement does it hits you?
Monday, June 13, 2005
Never give up things you like
I find this comic is motivating me. Being wanting to upload for ages, fianlly found a place to upload.
Friday, June 10, 2005
New blog ~ Crafty World
Crafts crafts....
I like it when I was very young... thought of going to study ARTS in collage, but too bad, don't have this opportunity.
I've created a blog, just to store my favourite crafts links, pictures, for reference.
Here are the link: Colors Crafty World
I like it when I was very young... thought of going to study ARTS in collage, but too bad, don't have this opportunity.
I've created a blog, just to store my favourite crafts links, pictures, for reference.
Here are the link: Colors Crafty World
Thursday, June 09, 2005
Music....
With my limited songs in my office PC, I'm keep on listen to 10 songs repeat and repeat for sometime, so poor...... no CD-Rom in my PC.....
Got back my walkman (seems outdated coz everyone there is using discman or pen drive), but that the only device that have radio's in my house. But walkman's waste alot of bateries, need to go for an adpter.
Argh.... finally nice music.Ccompare with chinese and english radio station, I more prefer English songs, (althought I like chinese songs), but seems that chinese radio station seems not playing those song's that I like. Plus there good melody in English songs. Most of my friends are chinese educated, they seems like totally don't like to switch on to English Radio Stations.... Just don't understand.
Might be i'm more toward a melody person, n there are more toward a lyrics based person.
Got back my walkman (seems outdated coz everyone there is using discman or pen drive), but that the only device that have radio's in my house. But walkman's waste alot of bateries, need to go for an adpter.
Argh.... finally nice music.Ccompare with chinese and english radio station, I more prefer English songs, (althought I like chinese songs), but seems that chinese radio station seems not playing those song's that I like. Plus there good melody in English songs. Most of my friends are chinese educated, they seems like totally don't like to switch on to English Radio Stations.... Just don't understand.
Might be i'm more toward a melody person, n there are more toward a lyrics based person.
Tuesday, June 07, 2005
Nice pin
Yesterday I saw a nice pin in on of the accessories shop, it was cool but the price its expensive, I think its the cost for alot of handmade works, but the material are not tat expensive. Its actually simple to do, but I need to find the beads 1st.
Found this page:)
http://www.beadjewelrymaking.com
http://www.homeofthesampler.com/
http://www.craftster.org/forum/index.php?PHPSESSID=d7ffd751a06ae3ccdbaab019ad43d3a2&topic=21330.0
Found this page:)
http://www.beadjewelrymaking.com
http://www.homeofthesampler.com/
http://www.craftster.org/forum/index.php?PHPSESSID=d7ffd751a06ae3ccdbaab019ad43d3a2&topic=21330.0
Wednesday, June 01, 2005
Howl' s Moving Castle 霍尔的移动城堡
I borrowed the comic last week. Very nice very nice comic. Too bad no color. Imagine in the animation sure is very nice. Wanna download n keep as a collection.
Story line:
............
Some nice Pic:
By Hauru no Ugoku Shiro
Story line:
............
Some nice Pic:
By Hauru no Ugoku Shiro
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