Tuesday, December 21, 2004

培星's talk

Yesterday heard 培星 speech at united meeting, waseh…. He is a very “keng” man. A very strong and powerful person.

What am I lack of, I found at there:
1。欲望 – 目标不明确 –〉你是不是真的要去罗马?
2。不敢改变,不够渴望。 很害羞!!有很多的恐惧。
3。A - 需要,不是坦讨它好不好,可以不可以做. 你是需要它帮你得到自由的。

I know that’s true that just work this few years, you will become different from other people. U will have the freedom that other people will not have. U wants it or not!

Argh.... I must success in this feild, I don't want to be broke for the rest of my life!!

Reason why u wanna go to Rome?

Reason why u wanna go to Rome?

  1. Free luxury trip, all fully sponsor, why not go?
  2. Honeymoon with my husband, will be definitely very sweet and memorable.
  3. Whole group go for a trip, would it be nice.
  4. Free myself n TS from 9-5 works.
  5. Like the scenery of Rome, I like history buildings.
  6. Prove to mama that this works. Save her from looping the same mistake.
  7. Have time n $$ under my control. Not them controlling me.
  8. Shop till I drop. Without looking at the price tag. Grab anything I want.
  9. A path to financial freedom.
  10. Need to prove to those people that don't believe in me, especially those "good friends of mine"

Friday, December 17, 2004

Working attitude

I feel that my working attitude have some problem. Not concentrate enough and no heart to work. And I feel really scared and tension about asking people around me. Don't know why that I still feel paise asking people around me when I have problems. People don't really talk and joke with me. Might be I'm too quite, thats all. Hard hard to communicate with them, I'm so scare and pai se. Hai~~

Where is my courage? Why am I scared? This worsten my performance in work.

Christmas is coming

Wish everyone and me a Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year.



Friday, December 10, 2004

管道的故事

很久、很久以前,有两位名叫柏波罗和布鲁诺的年轻人,他们是堂兄弟,雄心勃勃,住在意大利的一个小村子里。

两位年轻人是最好的朋友。

他们是大梦想者。

他们不停里谈着,渴望有一天能通过某种方式,让他们可以成为村里最富有的人。他们都很聪明而且勤奋。他们想他们需要的只是机会。

一天,机会来了。村里决定雇两个人把附近河里的水运到村广场的水缸里去。这份工作交给了柏波罗和布鲁诺。两个人都抓起两个水桶奔向河边。一天结束后,他们把整镇上的水缸装满了。村里的长辈按每桶水一分钱的价线付钱给他们。” .

“我们的梦想实现了!”布鲁诺大喊着,“我简直无法相信我们的好福气。”

但柏波罗不是非常确信。

他的背又酸又痛,提那重重的大桶的手也起了泡。他害怕明天早上起来又要去工作。他发誓要想出更好的办法,将河里的水运到村里去。

“布鲁诺,我有一个计划,”第二天早上,当他们抓起水桶往河边奔时,柏波罗说,“一天才几分钱的报酬,而要这样来回提水,干脆我们修一条管道将水从河里引进村里去吧。”布鲁诺愣住了。

“一条管道?谁听说过这样的事?”布鲁诺大声嚷嚷着,“柏波罗,我们有一份很不错的工作。我一天可以提100桶水。一分钱一桶水的话,一天就是1元钱!我是富人了!一个星期后,我就可以买双新鞋。一个月后,我就可以买一头母牛。六个月后,我可以盖一间新房子。我们有全镇最好的工作。我们一周只需工作五天,每年2周的有薪假期,我们这辈子可以享受生活了!放弃你的管道吧!”

但柏波罗不是容易气馁的人。他耐心地向他最好的朋友解释这个计划。柏波罗将一部分白天的时间用来提桶运水,用另一部分时间以及周末来建造管道。他知道,在岩石般硬的土壤中挖一条管道是多么艰难。因为他的薪酬是根据运水的桶数来支付的,他知道他的收入在。开始的时候会降低。而且他亦知道,要等1、2年,他的管道才开始产生可观的效益。但柏波罗相信他的梦想终会实现。于是他就去做了。

布鲁诺和其他村民开始嘲笑柏波罗,称他“管道人柏波罗”。布鲁诺赚到比柏波罗多一倍的钱,·炫耀他新买的东西。他买了一头驴,配上全新的皮鞍,拴在他新盖的两层楼旁。 他买了亮闪闪的新衣服,在乡村饭馆里吃可口的食物。村民尊称他为布鲁诺先生。当他坐在酒吧里,为人们买上几杯,而人们则为他所讲的笑话开怀大笑。

小小的行为等于巨大的结果
当布鲁诺晚间和周末睡在吊床上悠然自得时,柏波罗还在继续挖管道。头几个月,柏波罗的努力并没有多大进展。他工作很辛苦二—比布鲁诺的工作更辛苦,因为柏波罗晚上和周末都在工作。
但柏波罗不断地提醒自己,明天梦想的实现是建造在今天的牺牲上面的。一天一天过去了,他继续挖,每次只是一英寸。

“一英寸、又一英寸成为一英尺,”他一边挥动凿子,打进岩石般硬的土壤中,一边重复这句话。一英寸变成一英尺,然后10…20…尺……100尺……”

“短期的痛苦等于长期的回报,”每天完成工作后,筋疲力尽的他跌跌撞撞地回到他简陋的小屋时,他这样提醒自己。他通过设定和通过每天的目标来衡量工作成效。他知道,终有一天,回报将大大超过付出。

“目光盯在回报上,”每当他慢慢入睡,耳边尽是酒馆中村民的笑声时,他一遍遍地重复这句话。

“目光盯在回报上。”

时来运转
一天天、一月月过去了。有一天,柏波罗意识到他的管道完成了一半,这意味着他只需提桶走一半路程了!柏波罗把额外的时间用来建造管道。完工的日期终于越来越近了。在他休息的日候,柏波罗看到他的老朋友布鲁诺在费力地运水。布鲁诺比以前更加驼背。由于长期劳累,步伐也变慢了。布鲁诺很生气,闷闷不乐,为他自己注定—辈子提桶而愤恨。他开始花较少的时间在吊床上,却花更多的时间在酒吧里。当布鲁诺进来时,酒吧的老顾客窃窃私语:“提涌人布鲁诺来了。”当镇上的醉汉模仿布鲁诺驼背的姿势和拖着脚步走路的样子时,他们咯咯大笑。布鲁诺不再给别人喝了,也不再讲笑话了。他宁愿独自坐在漆黑的角落里,被一大堆空瓶所包围。
最后,的大日子终于来到子——管道完工了!村民们簇拥着来看水从管道中流入水槽里!现在村子源源不断地有新鲜供应了,附近村子的人都搬到这条村来,村子顿时繁荣起来。

管道一完工,柏波罗便不用再提水桶了。无论他是否工作,水源源不断地流人。他吃饭时,水在流人。他睡觉时,水在流人。当他周末去玩时,水在流人。流人村子的水越多,流人柏波罗口袋的钱也越多。

管道人柏波罗的名气大了,人们称他为奇迹制造者,政客们称赞他有远见,恳请他竞选市长。但柏波罗明白他所完成的并不是奇迹,这只是一个很大、很大梦想的第一步。知道吗,柏波罗的计划大大超越了这条村庄。

招募他的朋友帮忙
管道迫使提桶人布鲁诺失去了工作。看着他的老朋友向酒吧,老板讨免费的酒喝,柏波罗心里很难受。于是柏波罗安排了一次于布鲁诺的会面。

“布鲁诺,我来这里是想请求你的帮助。”

布鲁诺挺起腰,眯着他那无神的眼睛,声音沙哑地说:“别挖苦我了。”

“我不是来向你夸耀的,”柏波罗说,“我是来向你提供一个很好的生意机会。建造第一条管道花了我两年多的时间。但这两年里我学到很多!我知道使用什么工具、在哪里挖、如何排管。一路上我都做了笔记。我开发一个系统,能让我们建造另一条管道,然后另一条…另一条…

“我自己一年可以建一条管道。但这并不是利用我的时间的最好方式。我想做的是教你和其他人建造管道…然后你教其他人…然后他们再教其他人…直到管道铺满本地区的每条村落…最后,全世界的每一条村子都有管道。”

“只要想一想,”柏波罗继续说,“我们只须从流进这些管道的水中赚取一个很小的比例。越多的水流进管道,就有越多的钱流进我们的口袋。我所建的管道不是梦想的结束,而只是开始。”布鲁诺终于明白这幅宏伟的蓝图。他笑了,向他的老朋友伸出他那粗糙的手。他们紧紧地握住对方的手,像失散多年的老朋友那样拥抱。

在提桶世界里的管道梦想
许多年过去了。柏波罗和布鲁诺已退休多年。他们遍布全球的管道生意每年把几百万的收入泵进他们的银行账户。当他们有时到全国各地旅行时,柏波罗和布鲁诺遇到那些提水桶的年轻人。这两个一起长大的朋友总是把车停下来,将自己的故事讲给年轻人听,帮助他们建立自己的管道。一些人愿意听,并且立即抓住这个机会,开始做管道生意。但悲哀的是,大部分提桶者总是不耐烦地拒绝这个建造管道的念头,柏波罗和布鲁诺无数次地听到相同的藉口。

“我没有时间”。

“我朋友告诉我,他认识的一个朋友的朋友试图建造管道,但失败了。”“只有那些很早加人的人才可以从管道那里赚到钱。”

“我这辈子一直都提水桶,我只想维持现状。”

“我知道有些人在管道的骗局中亏了钱,我可不会。”

柏波罗和布鲁诺为许多缺乏远见的人而感到悲裒。

但他们承认,他们生活在一个提桶的世界里,只有一小部分人敢做管道的梦

你是谁?——提桶者?还是管道建造者?你是否只有来到公司、把工作于了才有收人?好像提桶人布鲁诺? 或者你做一次工作,然后一次又一次地得到回报,就像管道建造者柏波罗一样?
如果你像大部分人一样,你在使用提桶计划换钱的陷阱”。你知道如下绕口令:
一小时的工作换一小时的报酬
一个月的工作换一个月的报酬
一年的工作换一年的报酬

这听起来熟悉吗?
我称它为“时间换金钱”的陷阱。提桶的问题在于,当你停止提桶时,收入也停止了。即是说有保障的工作”或“梦想的工作”的概念只是一个幻觉。提桶的浅在危险在于,收入是暂时的,而不是持续的。

如果布鲁诺某天早上醒来发现自己背部扭伤,起不了床,那一天他可以赚多少钱?零!
没有工作,就没有收入!
任何提桶的工作都是一样的。只要提桶者用完了病假日或休假日,如果他们不继续提桶,他们就不会得到薪水。
牙医不能再提水桶了
这是一个真实生活中的例子。我的前任牙医是我所见过的最好的牙医。她是个典型的专业人士,性格很好,医术高明,几乎每次拜访她都毫无痛楚。另外,她喜爱她的工作。她自己安排时间,她的诊所每周只营业3天,以便她有四天的时间和家人在—一起。
在这份她所喜欢的工作中.她每周工作3天,而每年收人为10万美元。如果曾经有过的话,这就是提桶者梦想中的工作。
有一个问题。40岁之前,她的手患了关节炎而无法再工作。现在她在当地一所大学教书,收入是做牙医时的l/3。虽然她没有做错任何事,但她理想的工作消失了。
现在你是否明白,为什么我说从来没有一份有保障的提桶工作吧?你是否看到提桶的工作是多么脆弱?
时间换钱陷阱的问题在于,如果你不交换时间,你就赚不到钱。
管道人柏波罗很早就意识到提桶的局限。于是他决心建立一个系统,无论是否投人更多的时间,他都能不断得到报酬。

他明白提桶是毫无保障可言的,他明白管道是他的生命线。如果明天你不能付出时间,你会怎么样?你呢?如果明天你的收入中断了,你怎么样?如果你被解雇了,会有什么发生?如果你病了或身体不适,无法继续提桶,会有什么发生?如果某一次医疗意外耗尽了你所有的积蓄,怎么办?如果你的公积金一夜之间无影无踪,怎么办?如果明天你的收入中断了,你可继续支付房屋分期付款到何时呢?买车的分期付款,又如何呢?还有孩子上学的费用呢?六个月?三个月?三个星期?!!!如果灾难降临,你是否有生命线保护你和你的家人呢?抑或呢? 无论你是个清道夫、或者是个秘书、或者是个专业人士保障在哪里?它称为管道——持续性收人——不管你有否继续付出时,你都可以从管道那里得到收入,当你当你玩乐时,管道在付钱给你,管道是一天二十四小时、一周七天、一年三百六十五天不停地为你工作。 管道是生命线。因为它们让人们摆脱时间换钱的陷阱我们生活在几十年来最富裕的经济状况中,然而数百万的人仍从工资支票到工资支票地生活,工作时间越来越长,而仅仅为了收支平衡。为什么呢?因为他们在使用错误的计划,他们掉进了用时间换金钱的陷阱中。干一天的工作,拿一天的钱。听起来熟悉么?无论你是年收入仅一万元的洗碗工,还是十万元的医生,你都是用一个单位的时间换一个单位的钱。你仍然从一张工资支票活到另一张工质支票。至于“工作保障”————如果你因为被解雇、或疾病、或受伤、或受伤、或退休而不能工作,工资支票也会停止。哪里还有什么保障呢?你如何摆脱时间换金钱点的陷阱呢?通过建造来持续世袭收入的管道。有了世袭收入,你只要工作一次,就可以不断得到报酬。管道一天一天一年一年的连续泵,无论你是否在那里工作。现在那就是保障———真正的财务保障 

给生活修一条快乐,健康,美丽,自由的管道

Thursday, December 02, 2004

Money

钱能买睡床不能买睡眠;
钱能买书本不能买智慧;
钱能买食物不能买食欲;
钱能买装饰不能买美丽;
钱能买屋子不能买家庭;
钱能买药物不能买健康;
钱能买娱乐不能买家庭。

To open a McD Restorant

Gosh~~ I was amaze on the amount of money u need to spend on just opening a McD franshise!!

A new McDonald's restaurant between RM600,000 to RM3 million!!!

Franchise fee-RM171,000
deposit-RM45,000 - RM70,000
Others expenses include: Staff training and salaries, stock trading, cost of kitchen equipment, seating, decor, renovations ......All need $$

Later when u earn back, u need to give them:A monthly Royalty Fee( system fee), is based on a % of the restaurant's gross sales( 5%).

Monday, November 29, 2004

Not assigning task.

I was not assign task again. Don't know why? I don't know what I need to do for this week, except the user guide, which i estimate will complete tomorow.. Argh... am my programming not good enough? Why the boss aren't assigning task for me to do??

According to my collegue, the boss say, nothing much to let me do. So now I'm sweaping others peoples bugs, errors, but its a good way to learn to!!

Friday, November 26, 2004

Chicken Soup For The Soul

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.We miss out some warmth in human relationship to give each other support.Treasure what you have. Just a little story for you~
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its colour, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
QUESTIONS :
1. What were the four words?
2.What is the implication of this story?
ANSWER : The husband just said "I Love You Darling" .The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behaviour. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not happen.No point to blame. She had also lost her only child.What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world."A journey of a thousand miles begins with but with a single step."Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears AND you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think."

Thursday, November 25, 2004

pRobL3m$

Argh.... finally found the problem... which cause my page to not display at the correct layout. That stupid "blockquote" problem. **sign**

Yesterday meal

Yesterday TS was not free to accompany me to have my dinner.

"What should I eat"! "What should I eat"! "What should I eat"! ... I keep on asking myself.

"Might be go JJ and have a look, seens I need to buy something there". I thought.
I went to JayaJusco, haha... again site track, being attacked to a accessories shop. Brought 4 pair of earings~~ ah..later I will have a huge collection of earing at my home.

Walking in the department store, seeking for food~~ saw sushi... took unagi, my favorite food in japanese menu.

Hmm.... what else I want??

I keep finding and finding, I wanted to take the octopus ball, but after a short thought..... ah better not, last time kena before.
Walking..... walking.... finally saw ICE-CREAM!! I got attracted to the big cone ice cream. During high school, I like to have 1 big cone with 3 big scope of ice cream, super yummy~~. There I go, but they just allow 1 scope. Too bad. But I was really enough for my dinner.

The end.

Korea Dinner

On Tuesday (23-Nov-2005), me n ts went to eat Korea food. This is our 1st time in eating it. His friend ahsin introduce us to there.

When we step into the shop n c the price list... wah!! what a great shock.

"AH ahsin tipu us ler.. where got rm10++ meal inside there wo??" said TS.

Ts call to confirm that is it the recommend shop. The answer was YES.
No choice, have to order, but there is a whole branch of Korea words in the menu, even have English translation, we didn't really understand what really describe in the menu. So we need help from the BOSS. The boss was a middle age friendly lady, she try to introduce what’s is nice n special as we told her that we are the 1st time eating Korean food.

After going thought all the discussion with him, we finally decide to eat seafood steamboat (Coz we saw everyone eating it, so u think "hmmm.... might be very famous").

First, they serve 5-6 small plates of vegetables. Including vegetable, kimchi, season cucumbers, curry potatoes, taugeh, pancakes, and etc. Everything was like just enough for 2 person meals.

I ask, "What!!! Is this what are the ingredients for the steamboat??"

TS reply, "The seafood haven't come.. later u will know!".

So both of us sit there, waiting for them to serve the steamboat. TS like the kimchi so much, but I don’t like the taste. Everything he ate, he say it was nice. But might be I wasn’t so get use to the Korean taste, I didn’t have much thoughts.

We waited n waited n waited.... hmm... a bit too slow. I guess.

"Eh.. you see, people are eating, and those food are keep on coming and coming, why are we sitting here, alamak, maybe we need to finish this first before the steamboat come?", said TS.
HAHA.. we finally know that, when the food are serve, we are suppose to eat those 1st, it serve like an appetizer before the real steamboat. What a joke!! We both like “sua ku”… haha! Never mind. Good experience.
FINALLY, a wok of steam boat came. We order rice as the waiters ask us. But when we start eat the steam boat, we just know that inside the soup got NOODLES, how on earth are we going to finish that thing plus the rice we order!!

The steamboat was nice, there are a lot of ingredient in it, including small octopus, “lala”, crab, prawn, different kind of mushrooms, cabbages, eggs and noodles. The noodles was very smooth, thin and soft. That “kou gan” is the best. The best noodles I ever have. The soup was nice, strong seafood smell, especially strong prawn taste. It was fantastic. But I think that steamboat is too much for 2 person. It is better for 3-4 person. But in RM45, its consider very worth it. We ate n ate n ate. TS surrender 1st, too full I guess. Who tell him to eat roti canai before come and eat wo!! Later I soon surrender too.

Wah… some more come watermelon n a cup barley drink. The barley drink was nice, it was mix with blended ice and mixed rice. Very suitable as a dessert. Finally we finish and pay for the bill. U guess how much was the bill?? RM60!!! Don’t know why come out RM10. TS say might be the rice and the appetizer. But he say worth it, so we didn’t kira that much. It was really a good meal.

Thanks TS for taking to eat this wonderful meal.


Here are some brief discribtion of Kimchi.

Kimchi represents Korea's best known food. Koreans serve kimchi at almost every meal, and few Koreans can last more than a few days before cravings get the better of them. During the 1988 Summer Olympic Games, thousands of foreigners were introduced to it for the first time. Despite a reputation for being spicy, most people usually develop a taste for it, and many foreigners also find themselves missing it after returning to their home country. Here is a picture of kimchi:


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