开心他来载我

好开心，有了车，TS可以来到公司来载我。
早上他气我的一切都忘了。

牙痛

我的牙痛，感觉好像牙龈在痛，牙龈在痛，好像人发热了。
我拼命吃维他命C,当着糖果来吃，有点酸酸，但麻木了。
种比吃糖果好，比较健康。 :P

戀愛~四個階段

有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情

必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。

第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。

第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，
至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，
這時另一方就會感到被冷落。

第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。

第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，
你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳）最親的人。　
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽，而會互相成長。

但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，
而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，
不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
　
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，
真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣


我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，
一旦愛上了，年深日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，
他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，
原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。

妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，
但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人，
這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，
這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳差點認不出自己。

我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，
妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型，
然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，
妳不必再到處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。

深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，
為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，
妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純，所以要很單純的人才容易獲得......

礼物 vs 食物

今天在星洲日報>城人小說 看了一篇小說，关于一个人为何不喜欢礼物。忽然，感觉到TS也是不是很喜欢礼物的人。每次有重要日字，我会买卡或小小的礼物给他， 但他只是会看看几眼，就丢在一旁，不去理会。我很喜欢自己手做卡或小礼物，他的收房间时还差一点丢我送的卡。。。太令我伤心了。

反而，我请他吃，他会很开心，我不知他会记得吗， 但他不会丢任何吃不完的东西。

他的爱的语圆是食物以服务。该次不要再送他礼物啦! 浪费钱和时间。

Nice movie ~ 千手观音

Check it out, its call the 千手观音。A Chinese preformance. Very nice. It might take a while to download the show:)

http://www.employees.org/~hshen/12371032.wmv

Fruits b4 meal

People always ask me, why you have fruits b4 lunch or dinner, here's the answer:

Fruits should be taken in an empty stomach, not as dessert after the meal as is
often done.

If you eat fruit like that, it will also serve a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.

Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit.

As fruit digests faster than bread, the slice of fruit digests quickly and is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but its passage is blocked by the bread which takes longer to digest.

In the meantime the whole meal ferments and turns to acid.
Consequently, when the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and
digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.

So it is better to eat your fruits in an empty stomach or before your meals !

You have heard people complaining

every time I eat water-melon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat banana I feel like running to the toilet etc.... Actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit in an empty stomach.

The fruit mixes with the putrefying other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat ! Graying hair, balding, nervous outburst, dark circles under the eyes all these will not happen if you take fruits in an empty stomach.

It is incorrectly presumed that some fruits like orange and lemon are acidic and will enhance acidity in the stomach. Research however shows that all fruits become alkaline in our body.

When you need to drink fruit juice, drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT from the cans.

Don't drink juice that has been heated up. Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all. You only get to taste.

So stop making 'durian porridge' if you want nutrients. Cooking fruit destroys all the vitamins.

Eating the pulp or whole fruit is far better than drinking the juice as the fibre is good for you.

If you should drink the juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.

幸福

I like people fetch me, rather then me drive :)

Cosmetic Vanity Case

I got my Cosmetic Vanity Case yesterday. It is beautiful. It is a stylish carrying case for professional make-up artists or home use.
It contains multiple, stackable and foldable compartments.

It's dimensions: 21(H) x 20(W) x 30(L) cm. I have found a vanity case that is very similiar to mine. Except the color is differ. Mine is in dark red color. I got the pictures from Yazmo. There got alot of makeup vanity case!!


Here is the outer look of the casing.

The inner look it quite similiar to this.

Woah.... I look more professional in with that box. Hope to get higher sales back with this case.

Our new CAR ~ Proton Iswara Sedan 1.5

Yesterday we finally get my new car!!

Almost waited a month to wait for the car plus doing the loan thing. Argh.... alot documents need to pass to them. Bank statement, EPF statement.... bla bla bla, soo much procedure.

Because we are buying that car for business purposes, so we didn't select a car that we like. We rather select a car that is ecomonical, big spacer to store products and reasonable price. Its a Red Proton Iswara Sedan 1.5, older model of the proton car model. But its cheaper then the latest 1, Proton Syvi and the new model of Proton Iwara (RObot Car).


Its the same model, but mine car is in solid red color.

I originally wanted a smaller car, like Kancil, Kenari or like Atos type car, but TS insist that its too small to either take people or take products. It won't be our last car, definate won't be, so we decided to go for that car we own now.

We take Hoo for a car ride to test the car. He 1st impression is "I so miss this car,it remains me about my old car that I had b4". Hoo last time had a car same model as our car now. The layout everything is the same.

"You both listen here, set a goal, 3 years later, you better change a new car!", this is Hoo comments. I was thinking, we just brought a new car, but they had alredy plan for the future that 3 years later, we MUST change a car. It's good in a way that we force ourself to achieve something that we want. HAVE the vision of future. That's great.

Nyonya Dumplings

I ate nyonya dumpling today morning, its tasty with strong aroma!

The 1st time I heard about nyonya dumpling was Hoo n TS talking about melaka food. When they mention about nyonya dumpling, their reaction change, "nyonya dumpling is very nice, very tasty, its blue in color........", I was thinking, why the dumpling is in blue color? for decoration??

Finally my friend gave me the 1st nyonya dumpling, it was in the shape as a rectangular pillow, open it, yeah..... it was is blue n white colors. 1st bite - nothing special, 2nd bit - still ok..... Nothing special wat! But my bad hungry bf ate the other half of my dumpling. So my memory of nyonya dumpling was so so only.

Yesterday my lovely malacca housemate brings some of her home made nyonya dumpling for us. The 1st bite - taste good, 2nd bite - strong aroma taste..... Its taste good, better then the original tradisional dumpling. I love it. Yummy. The main indregiants inside the nyonya dumplings are chopped meat + spicies. It taste abit sweet, abit salty n abit spicy.The normal orginal dumplings are pork meat+mushroom+beans + salty egg york. This dumpling is totally salty.

The other favorite dumpling I love most is the plain yellow small dumpling, its eaten with the brown sugar sauce. Its hard to find it selling at the market this few years, might not have high demand on it. but it is still my favorite.

I manage to find some photos of the nyonya dumplings in kampungkai blogspot. His blog descibe how the nyonya dumpling is being produce.


This is the look of the nyonya dumpling when u remove the bamboo leafs. Its blue and white strips colors!! REALLY blue in color.


This is the inner ingrediants of the dumpling, taste fantastic...


This are normal chinese dumplings. Clockwise from top left: Supreme Dumpling, Chilli Shrimp Dumpling and Plain Dumplings. I love the plain dumplings