Wednesday, July 20, 2005

Picture word

I found this in a blog, this page can generate any words to picture of words, its like cutting alphabet pictures to form a word.

Red Oval Barriery'\U on road

neon c (wbrc)InformationY version 2O

Monday, July 11, 2005

wild zebra

This is an cool dance drama which integrates both ballet and folk dance. I love it when look at the preview.

Wild Zebra, is known ad Asian Lion King.

What is worst than a person that is blind?

A person that is worst than a person that is blind,
is a person that can see but have no vision.


~by Dr. SF Wong

FAMILY

FAMILY = Father and Mother, I Love You
Such a good defination :)

TEAM = Together we acheive more.

5 love language

People express and receive love in different ways, Dr. Gary Chapman identifies these as the Five Love Language.

1. Words of Affirmation (语言的认定)
2. Physical Touch (肢体的接触)
3. Gifts (礼物)
4. Acts of Services (服务)
5. Quality Time (时间)

I brought this book in Chinese version yesterday, today i'm reading it. Hope I manage to finish it by this week. I have read into 1 sentence that mention, in everyone of us, there is a LOVE BOX. IF your partner use the correct love language, thus it will makes your love language full, which will makes you very happy though out the day.

This applies to children and all the friends around us too.
Here is a case, a 13 years old girl had just recieve her AIDS medication where her parents was blaming the school poor education system.
This young child is from a divoice family. When her parent divoice, she felt that her father doesn't love her, so he leave her with her mum. When her mum married to another guy, she felt happy that her mum finally found someone she love. But she still feel that no ones love her. When she found a guy, she really found that the guy loves her and she feel it. not becuase the sex, but the love. Althought that her mum and her step father give her everything she wants, but it wasn't her love language...... So sad.

Friday, July 01, 2005

Black dot on a piece of white paper

Past few days I was totally busy, alot alot alot of otis(obs) need to be solve. Most are easy job, but need upload from one server to another server before going LIVE. I don't really understand why, but I guess its most probably because of backup issue. But even I simple simpl task, u need to have time to upload, to ask approval, to ask them to roll, the most sad part is the tester need to test 3 times for a site because of the rolling to differ server.

Today I abit relax, finally all obs have been cleared. Horray... Today there are 2 new collegues. 1 sit beside me, and another sit opposite me. Horray... I got neighbour liao, won't be too boring I guess.

I have this thought today, human like gossiping, yes its true. LAST time I use to join in n talk in the topic, but now don't feel like gossiping anymore. It seems like talking peoples bad thing as a joke or entertainment. I know that person who gossip this might don't know what she/he say might have this impact on this new person. It makes that new person's 1st impression have gone. Just because of his/her 1 comment on the new person. In a company, I seldom see people praising on someone but rather comment more in their bad stuff, ITs like once you done something wrong, they will remember the bad things forever, how many good things you have done doesn't seems to cover them off. So SAD. ITs like a white paper, there is a black dot on it, most people will look at the black dot but they didn't relaese that in that paper, the black dot may be is just 1% of the paper, the other white site is 99%. Should look at peoples good thing which is 99% not the black dot 1%.

Yeah Penang.... here I come

Yeah... tonite will be going back to Penang. Missed penang FOOD... so yummy, need to eat CHA KOAY TIAW, LAKSA, HOKKIEN MEE.... wahahahhahah

Not forgeting our trip to there, not just go eat only, this is our 1st business trip to PENANG. My bf finally wanna open market at PENANG... Hurray, I can introduce my business to my lovely frineds in Penang, to share the joy and benefit to them. I call up alot of friends to meet up yesterday, there are all so supporting:) Cool. I MUST make this trip a sucessfull I as I want TS to visit my hometown always. Wanna let him know that PENANG is the best....

Besides that, Lizzy is back from states, already 5 years haven't saw her. Miss her alot. She is my good friend in secondary school, she came back because her mum is ill. Now jobless and become full time driver for her sisters and brother. I just life here in Penang is bore to her. As she is not working. She still not quite use to the weather and the enviroment in Penang. Some more say hate Penang, so "kek sim" after heard her comment. PENANG is the place I grown up in. So I would always LOVE it wheather where i am in the world.

Friday, June 24, 2005

开心他来载我

好开心,有了车,TS可以来到公司来载我。
早上他气我的一切都忘了。

牙痛

我的牙痛,感觉好像牙龈在痛,牙龈在痛,好像人发热了。
我拼命吃维他命C,当着糖果来吃,有点酸酸,但麻木了。
种比吃糖果好,比较健康。 :P

Thursday, June 23, 2005

戀愛~四個階段

有位心理學家曾寫道,一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情

必須經過四個階段,那就是:
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定,因人而易。

第一個階段:共存。
這是熱戀時期,情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。

第二個階段:反依賴。
等到情感穩定後,
至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事,
這時另一方就會感到被冷落。

第三個階段:獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續,要求更多獨立自主的時間。

第四個階段:共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形,
你(妳)的他(她)已經成為你(妳)最親的人。 
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽,而會互相成長。

但是,大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段,
而選擇分手一途,這是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的,不要耍個性,
不要想太多要互相信任,這樣第二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的,不要輕言放棄。
 
兩人相聚是因為有緣,相知是因為有心,
真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無由,希望看到上述的四個階段,真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣


我們會逐漸變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處,外表不相像,性格也是南轅北轍,
一旦愛上了,年深日久, 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛,
他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似,說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣,一天,妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣,
原來我們會變成我們所愛的人。

妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人,而他一向比較輕佻,
但你們愛上了,他竟會不知不覺變成一個老實人,
這個改變,連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子,卻愛上了拘謹的妳,
這些日子,妳竟愈來愈活潑,妳差點認不出自己。

我們會逐漸變成對方理想中的人,這種改變,絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久,氣質也愈來愈相近,
妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類型,
然而,有一天,妳驚訝地發現,他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型,
妳不必再到處尋覓,他就是妳要找的人。

深深愛著一個人的時候,妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己,
為甚麼妳還會覺得快樂呢?
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒, 也是賺了,
妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純,所以要很單純的人才容易獲得......

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